Just to let you all know, I will update the blog as best I can. Richard has been put into place as the guardian and he has wasted no time in limiting me to Christie. When I call the facility they can tell me if Christie is O.K., but if she isn't they can only tell me she is not, but won't tell me what is wrong with her. There response to me when I call is" You have to refer your questions to the guardian. "The camera I sent to have pictures made of Christie, they will not send back to me. I can't have any pictures of her. Any mail I send to Christie will have to be seen by Richard first, they will forward it to him or wait until he visits to see it.He is however nice enough to allow me to still see her knowing I am 14 hours away. I try calling him and he won't return my calls. I called him at work this morning and he said he wrote me a letter and I should get it in a few days. I wonder why he can't talk on the phone.You would think after being with someone for 23 years they would be able to talk to me on the phone. I called him back at work and ask him what was going on why I couldn't have the pictures, he said there was a miss understanding I could have the pictures. He would have them send them to me. We will see. He told me not to call him again, he as Christie's legal father and guardian wanted to keep me updated voluntary. He said the letter would explain. I said " so you will keep me updated on a daily bases" he said No. He said he couldn't talk at work, I said will you call me when you get home he said no, then hung up on me.I guess that is some more of Philips influence because Philip told me I couldn't call his house, I guess he told Richard he couldn't call me.Funny thing is Philip talks to his ex wife where his son is concerned, but I can't talk to my ex husband about our daughter.Anyway if he stands true to his word, I will update. If not, then please keep us in your prayers.
Becky
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
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About Christie
- Becky Williams
- I am Becky, Christie's Mom and I want to tell you about Christie. Christie is a beautiful, outgoing, and caring person. She loves outside, turtles, frogs, birds all kinds of animals especially horses. Christie has talked about maybe becoming a vet. Christie was injured in a car wreck on April 19,2008. Christie has a severe globial brain injury where they had to remove the whole left tempral lobe. This blog is to share Christie's story. She is a fighter, and she is making a recovery that no one thought she would.
MOTHERS
This is a truly BEAUTIFUL piece. Please Read this at a slow pace, digesting every word and in Leisure...do not hurry... This is a treasure...
>For those lucky to still be blessed with your Mom,This is beautiful. For those of us who aren't, this is Even more beautiful. For those who are moms, you'll love this.
>The young mother set her foot on the path of life. 'Is This the long way?' she asked. And the guide said:'Yes, and the way is hard. And you will be old before you reach the end of it... But The end will be better than the beginning.'
But the young mother was happy, and she would not Believe that anything could be better than these years. So she Played with her children, and gathered flowers for Them along the way, and bathed them in the clear streams; and The sun shone on them, and the young Mother cried,'Nothing will ever be lovelier than this.'
>Then the night came, and the storm, and the path was Dark, and the children shook with fear and cold, and the mother Drew them close and covered them with her mantle, and the children said, 'Mother, we are not afraid, for you are near, and no harm can come.'
>And the morning came, and there was a hill ahead, and The children climbed and grew weary, and the mother was weary. But at all times she said to the children,' A little patience and we are there.'So the children climbed, and when they reached the top They said, 'Mother, we would not have done it without you.'
>And the mother, when she lay down at night looked up At the stars and said, 'This is a better day than the last, for my Children have learned fortitude in the face of hardness.Yesterday I gave them courage. Today, I've given them strength.'
>And the next day came strange clouds which darkened The earth, clouds of war and hate and evil, and the children groped And stumbled, and the mother said: 'Look up. Lift your eyes to the light. ' And the children looked and saw above the clouds An everlasting glory, and it guided them beyond the Darkness. And that night the Mother said, 'This is the best day of all, for I have shown my children God.'
>And the days went on, and the weeks and the months and The years, and the mother grew old and she was little and bent. But her children were tall and strong, and walked with Courage. And when the way was rough, they lifted her, For she was as light as a feather; and at last they came to a hill,And beyond they could see a shining road and golden gates flung wide. And Mother said, 'I have reached the end of my journey. And now I know the end Is better than the beginning, for my children can Walk alone, and their children after them.'
>And the children said, 'You will always walk with us, Mother, even when you have gone through the gates.'And they stood and watched her as she went on alone, and the gates Closed after her. And they said: 'We cannot see her But she is with us still. A Mother like ours is more than a memory. She Is a living presence.......'
>Your Mother is always with you... She's the whisper Of the leaves as you walk down the street; she's the smell of bleach In your freshly laundered socks; she's the cool hand On your brow when you're not well. Your Mother lives Inside your laughter. And she's crystallized in every tear drop. She's the place you came from, your first home; and she's the map you follow with every step you take. She's your first love And your first heartbreak, and nothing on earth can Separate you.Not time, not space... Not even death!
>I LOVE YOU MY BABY GIRL
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3 comments:
Oh Becky,
We are so sorry for the way this has turned out. No mother should be denied access to her child especially in this situation. I can't believe Richard could be so cruel. We love all of you and will continue to keep all of you in our prayers. Do I have to get his permission to send something to Christie too? Love to all.
Sharon & David Hayden
Sharon,
To my understanding anyone who sends her anything will be checked by him or read by him first.Your right it is a sad situation. Anyone who knows me knows I would never have done this to him. I was warned that this was the kind of person he was the whole time I was married to him, but loving him as much as I did I never saw his faults. It's amazing now I know why they say hind sight is 20/20.
Thanks for all your prayers.
Becky
becky are they updating the other site can you email me a link to rgossett@charter.net. hang in there sister you know GOD wont give us any more than wed can handle although somtimes we wonder what is he thinking. well we will keep praying and hope that GOD will get ahold of his heart and he'll realize that he's not only hurting you but i'm sure christie is hurting more. love ya gina ppbc
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