Christie hasn't had an updated evaluation since she was in a level 3 or 4 coma. I had a "board certified neurologist that is going to evaluate her as things have definitely changed with her. Richard will not agree to the evaluation. I am paying for it and it is in the best interest of Christie but he won't allow it. One would think he would be very happy to see where she has progressed to and to where she will be able to be in her life but like everything else where Christie is concerned I have to fight for that to.
Sunday, January 31, 2010
Missing Christie
I talked to Christie earlier and she again started asking "Can I come home" Last night when I talked to her she said she wanted to come home but didn't know how to find it. She constantly begs to come home. I don't know how much sorrow a Mama's heart can hold before it breaks. I would give anything to have Christie home where she so desperately begs to be. I don't know when that will be.
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About Christie
- Becky Williams
- I am Becky, Christie's Mom and I want to tell you about Christie. Christie is a beautiful, outgoing, and caring person. She loves outside, turtles, frogs, birds all kinds of animals especially horses. Christie has talked about maybe becoming a vet. Christie was injured in a car wreck on April 19,2008. Christie has a severe globial brain injury where they had to remove the whole left tempral lobe. This blog is to share Christie's story. She is a fighter, and she is making a recovery that no one thought she would.
MOTHERS
This is a truly BEAUTIFUL piece. Please Read this at a slow pace, digesting every word and in Leisure...do not hurry... This is a treasure...
>For those lucky to still be blessed with your Mom,This is beautiful. For those of us who aren't, this is Even more beautiful. For those who are moms, you'll love this.
>The young mother set her foot on the path of life. 'Is This the long way?' she asked. And the guide said:'Yes, and the way is hard. And you will be old before you reach the end of it... But The end will be better than the beginning.'
But the young mother was happy, and she would not Believe that anything could be better than these years. So she Played with her children, and gathered flowers for Them along the way, and bathed them in the clear streams; and The sun shone on them, and the young Mother cried,'Nothing will ever be lovelier than this.'
>Then the night came, and the storm, and the path was Dark, and the children shook with fear and cold, and the mother Drew them close and covered them with her mantle, and the children said, 'Mother, we are not afraid, for you are near, and no harm can come.'
>And the morning came, and there was a hill ahead, and The children climbed and grew weary, and the mother was weary. But at all times she said to the children,' A little patience and we are there.'So the children climbed, and when they reached the top They said, 'Mother, we would not have done it without you.'
>And the mother, when she lay down at night looked up At the stars and said, 'This is a better day than the last, for my Children have learned fortitude in the face of hardness.Yesterday I gave them courage. Today, I've given them strength.'
>And the next day came strange clouds which darkened The earth, clouds of war and hate and evil, and the children groped And stumbled, and the mother said: 'Look up. Lift your eyes to the light. ' And the children looked and saw above the clouds An everlasting glory, and it guided them beyond the Darkness. And that night the Mother said, 'This is the best day of all, for I have shown my children God.'
>And the days went on, and the weeks and the months and The years, and the mother grew old and she was little and bent. But her children were tall and strong, and walked with Courage. And when the way was rough, they lifted her, For she was as light as a feather; and at last they came to a hill,And beyond they could see a shining road and golden gates flung wide. And Mother said, 'I have reached the end of my journey. And now I know the end Is better than the beginning, for my children can Walk alone, and their children after them.'
>And the children said, 'You will always walk with us, Mother, even when you have gone through the gates.'And they stood and watched her as she went on alone, and the gates Closed after her. And they said: 'We cannot see her But she is with us still. A Mother like ours is more than a memory. She Is a living presence.......'
>Your Mother is always with you... She's the whisper Of the leaves as you walk down the street; she's the smell of bleach In your freshly laundered socks; she's the cool hand On your brow when you're not well. Your Mother lives Inside your laughter. And she's crystallized in every tear drop. She's the place you came from, your first home; and she's the map you follow with every step you take. She's your first love And your first heartbreak, and nothing on earth can Separate you.Not time, not space... Not even death!
>I LOVE YOU MY BABY GIRL
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4 comments:
Keep Fighting - I do not care what happened between the 2 of you, no matter what the differences may be, it needs to be put to the side and Christie MUST be the number ONE priority - If you do not like each other, so be it, you do not have to live together nor do you have to live in the same state. Christie however needs the best of both of her parents - I would be damned if I would stop fighting, Loving my child would be my strength to conquer his ignorance!
GREAT statement Tracy.Becky can you not get a hudge to order an evual. Wishes the best for YOU CHRISTY.
If nothing happens and if the neurologist isn't allowed to see Christie before Feb 17 we will go to court for that very reason.
Becky
Hi Becky,
Just keep puting your faith in God. I know it is hard to be separatted from your child because I have been there under different circumstances. We keep praying that God will open the door for Christie to come home soon. Always remember Romans 8:28. That is how I get through things. We love all of you. Sharon & David
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